Showing posts with label coaching. Show all posts
Showing posts with label coaching. Show all posts

Wednesday, November 27, 2013

What are you grateful for?



“The grateful mind is constantly fixed upon the best. Therefore it tends to become the best. It takes the form or character of the best, and will receive the best.” – Wallace D Wattles


We all have many things to be grateful for. Our families, our friends, our relationships… the fact that we are alive and have nothing but opportunity in front of us.


Gratitude keeps you focused on the good in life and that is critical in bringing more good into your life.


Don’t negate all the good in your life by focusing upon what you don’t have. That will only bring you more of what you don’t have and don’t want!!! It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy and why you see some people who seem to always be spiraling downward.


Another concept to appreciate is that if we aren’t grateful for the good in our lives, and express this, then these good things will start to diminish. Be thankful for your loved ones and tell them so often. If you want more than being thankful for what you have will open the door to more and your ability to go the extra mile where you are… which will bring you to what you desire.


Make a list and add to it every day of the things that you should be grateful for. Read it every day.


Doing so will change how you think and therefore what you have and will receive. What you have is based on your ‘old’ thinking. What is coming to you is based on how you think from this moment forward.




Eric


Eric W. Leaman

Trustee

Organization for Entrepreneurial Development

Unleashing the entrepreneurial spirit.

Change your mind ... and EVERYTHING changes

Friday, September 27, 2013

Managing Stress Begins with Knowing Its Source

Stress has long been known as a common curse of the entrepreneur. While there is no easy prescription for this problem, a helpful remedy is for entrepreneurs to get together and share their problems and frustrations.
When entrepreneurs get together, here are some of the factors they identify that increase stress.

When the initial vision of success gives way to disappointing sales. As one example, a business venture began based upon a single product that the owner really believed in -- a product that often drew praise when demonstrated ... but wouldn't sell. The owner heard over and over from prospective customers that the product was "a clever idea but I can't use it in my business." Stress was the by-product as this entrepreneur had to tear himself away from this single product, look at the facts, and begin again -- this time producing for the market, not for himself. A new product was the solution.

Partnership conflicts and coordination. When you start a business, friendships as well as investments are on the line. The backgrounds and talents of partners can make a difference. For instance, one partnership's co-entrepreneurs had very similar backgrounds, making the division of labor problematic.

Abandonment of reliable careers. The pressure to succeed is multiplied when new entrepreneurs find themselves taking a severe cut in their personal incomes in order to pursue their own business.

Overcoming bureaucratic barriers to small business marketing efforts. The difficulty a small company often has in dealing with layers of big-business bureaucracies can cause a great deal of strain. Reaching the CEO of a larger corporation may require a level of aggressiveness unnatural and, therefore, stressful to a small business owner. This frustration had been so great for one owner that he decided to direct his marketing efforts exclusively at other small companies.

Being too dependent on one company. Another business mentioned that his company had to swallow a very large loss on a major project when the single large firm his company had depended upon for its market suddenly ended the relationship.

Eric W. Leaman
Trustee
eleaman@oedglobal.org
http://twitter.com/oed4smallbiz
Organization for Entrepreneurial Development
Unleashing the entrepreneurial spirit.
Change your mind ... and EVERYTHING changes

Wednesday, July 17, 2013

Advertising and Public Relations

That is the kind of ad I like. Facts, facts, facts. - Samuel Goldwyn (1882–1974), U.S. film producer.

Advertising is the paid form of a non-personal message communicated through various media. Advertising is persuasive and informational and is designed to influence the purchasing behavior and/or thought patterns of the target audience.

The most powerful advertising is advertising that can accomplish two things effectively. First, it must remove all of the risk from the prospect's side, thereby making it risk-free for the client/customer to respond to your ad. This is critical because most of the people who will answer you ad have never done business with you before!

When you assume the risk FIRST, you make it easy for your prospect to pick up the phone or come in and begin a dialogue with your company… all without risk. The next thing that is important is that you must offer something of value to the person who makes the effort to visit or pick up the phone and call your company. Use videos, special reports, booklets, newsletters, fact sheets, or other "free" items that appear to have significant value to the prospect. This is especially effective if the information is not available elsewhere.

Wednesday, June 26, 2013

You can have anything that you want...



Your ‘brain’ may fight this concept but that is because it has been trained by others that you CAN’T have everything you want. Forget all those who have said ‘you can’t’… they were wrong. 

 

Tell your brain what to expect and it will help you get it! Think positive, be positive, BELIEVE positive, and you brain will show you the path to whatever you want… it is powerful enough to hold you back and it is powerful enough to get you what you want!

 

You are what you think about most.

 

All success starts in the mind.

Decide what you want, believe it is possible and that you deserve it. Then focus on it, visualize it (see it).

 

Said another way, your every act is preceded by a thought. Your dominant thoughts determine your dominant actions. Control your thoughts and your will control all your actions. Think before you act and think about your thoughts!

 

Your character is the sum total of your habits and your habits are formed by conscious acts and every conscious act is preceded by a thought. Control your thoughts, change your actions, change those habits you need or wish to change or amplify those that you wish to.

 


 

Eric

 

Eric W. Leaman

Trustee

Organization for Entrepreneurial Development

Unleashing the entrepreneurial spirit.

Change your mind ... and EVERYTHING changes

 

Interested vs. Interesting

OED Certified Advisor Sandy Riser of The Next Level Business Solutions brings us this simple and critical perspective on networking events.

When was the last time you went to a networking event where you felt someone was really interested in you? I like the theory about being interested in who you are talking to vs. what we think we should be at events which is being interesting.


If you switch those around, they will turn your networking into a powerful piece of your marketing. It is not all about you.
See more of Sandy's tips by visiting Next Levels's blog, or by follwoing them on Facebook and Twitter.

Tuesday, June 18, 2013

Personal Responsibility

“The price of greatness is responsibility.” – Winston Churchill
 
There is only one person responsible for your life and that person is YOU.

You must take 100% responsibility for your life and your actions.

You can’t blame others for what you have or don’t or what happens in any area of your life. It is all your responsibility and you have created the life you are living and only you can change it.

You must take responsibility for your life and be accountable for your wants, desire, and dreams. Accountability unlocks the door to your future.

Responsibility and accountability are about results. If you hold steadfast to your wants, desires, and dreams and do everything you can to attain them… then they will be yours. But they will not fall into your lap you must have a plan and hold yourself steadfast in moving forward every day. You control you destiny… not luck or others.

And you can create a life of abundance and goodness… that is the beauty of life. You can change anything you want to, improve anything you want to… all you have to do is want it powerfully enough (have a burning desire) and keep the belief that it is yours to have and it can and will be yours… if you hold yourself accountable for attaining it all.

No more stories, no more excuses, no more unfulfilled dreams… just do it.


Eric
 
Eric W. Leaman
Trustee
Organization for Entrepreneurial Development

Unleashing the entrepreneurial spirit.

Change your mind ... and EVERYTHING changes

 

Friday, June 14, 2013

The Reality of Work


contributed by OED Certified Advisor Gene G. Wright, Managing Partner, Northstar Consulting

Summary
We now live in a world of exponential change and increasing uncertainty in the world of work. The “new normal” is often expressed in terms of jobless growth, asset de-risking and the relentless pursuit of increasing competitiveness. The necessity for innovation in the workplace has long been recognized as a critical success factor for global companies like Apple, General Electric and Wal-Mart. However, it is no less important to small businesses where the loss of a single employee may be devastating to its success.  Today, in the best and most profitable organizations large and small, greater wealth is being derived directly from people performance versus capital equipment investment. In these organizations, unleashing the potential of people is seen as essential for the organization to thrive. Their employees are regarded as “talent” versus “labor” and seen as investment versus an expense. And like an investment, they’re being sought after to provide a return on investment (ROI). Employees are being more precisely targeted and selected for work roles to predictably and consistently provide maximum performance to their employers.

In spite of the critical need for innovation in the workplace, many companies and their employees remain deluded about the nature of work in this new age. Both parties continually experience unnecessary risk, loss, failure and surprises due to their respective reliance upon assumptions, misunderstandings or information voids. Managers and staff at every level are interacting daily without the knowledge necessary to unleash the greater potential hidden within their relationships. Incredibly, in 2011, some still only use performance reviews, engagement surveys, and assessments that are little more than rear view mirrors of past performance and do little to address real workplace needs and desires of either party. In sum, yesterday’s work mentality is inadequate for today’s workforce realities.      

The reality of today’s work relationships is one of great complexity, percolating from differences, contexts, variables and change between employer and employee. Because of the many “moving parts” there are significant benefits for both in the workplace if they can develop a common map for understanding and assembling work role relationships. A well designed work role serves to improve everyone’s thought, design, communications and choices. This can also provide a means for continuous improvements and knowledge management across time.

The value of predictive performance that may be gleaned from such a process could enable sustainable competitive advantage for businesses large and small if managers and employees can begin to realize, reconcile and reach agreement with their respective work, workplace and career goals. This becomes even more true related to respective specific needs and what each sees as value or benefit related to work. Both find it is easier to produce expectations than to extend attentive empathy and understanding of the other. Being accurately responsive to the other parties needs is advantageous and reliably provides the powerful leverage either requires to best gain what they seek

The critical factors that define, influence and impact performance, relationships and attraction between workers and organizations are quite different for employer and employee. On the “employer side” of work relationships there are three ever-changing, universal dimensions of functional work role performance within every organization of any size or industry. They include outcomes and production (what is expected), conserving resources (efficiency) and preventing risk (mistakes). On the “employee side” of work relationships, three different dimensions drive, attract, engage or repel workers across every profession and every worker demographic. These include functional (skills, competencies, education and experience), social (interactions with people inside or outside the organization) and life effects satisfaction (travel, relocation).

Predictability, the only way for employer or employee to dependably and consistently get what they need from the other is to provide what the other needs, and do it consistently and with precision. In short-the reality of work becomes a “we” thing with shared accountability for creating and sustaining high performance work relationships. Neither party is entitled anymore. Choice is the cornerstone of shared accountability and the underlying force for strong work relationships.

What do you think? Comments welcome!

Tuesday, June 11, 2013

The Drawing Power of the Mind


 

 While I was mentoring an advisor the other day the whole idea of goals and focus came into questions. WHY, was the question she asked… “Why is it so damn important to set goals?”
 
I told her why,,, and here is what we discuss:

 “Whatever the mind can conceive it can achieve.” – W Clement Stone

“Your thoughts attract people, objects and circumstances that closely match those thoughts.” - Ralph Marston

“When our attitude towards ourselves is big, and our attitude toward other is generous and merciful, we attract big and generous portions of success”. – W Clement Stone

There is a science to/of thought. Through thought, controlled and mastered, you mold your life.
 
If You Want Something

  1. SEE IT: Your mind is visual and creative. Depending on your abilities create either physical or mental images of what you what to have, be, and accomplish.
  2. BELIEVE IT IS ALREADY YOURS: Have faith that what you want, and are visualizing, is coming your way already… in your grasp.
  3. RECEIVE IT: Be open and ready for it to be yours and show appreciation even before it arrives.
  4. ACT: Focus your thoughts into actions toward your desire/goal.

Why think on what you want in such detail?

 Just as with a talented musician, trying to master or attain a level of proficiency, practice and repetition will make it so. The musician goes over and over the piece and in doing so they focus their thoughts and their talent to learn it.

 Likewise as you crystallize, believe and accept what you desire you are focusing your mind and your thoughts to make it so. And it will be so.


Eric

Eric W. Leaman
Trustee
Organization for Entrepreneurial Development
Unleashing the entrepreneurial spirit.
Change your mind ... and EVERYTHING changes

 

Friday, June 7, 2013

Life Has Nothing to Do With Luck

There are people believe that most success is the result of favorable breaks or luck. The fact is… Nothing in life is accidental. Life is always about cause and effect.

 The only ‘break’ or luck that anyone can rely on is the self-made variety.

This is the kind of ‘luck’ that comes from having a strong desire and a stronger will power and persistence to accomplish or receive what you desire.

“I am a great believer in Luck. The harder I work the more of it I seem to have.” – Coleman Cox

“(Lucky) Breaks” come to those who work at/for them… they are never random or an accident. You do things that create luck and put you in the path of opportunity. There are no shortcuts. Do the right things and ‘luck’ will bless you.

 “Luck is an accident that happens to the competent.” – Albert M Greenfield

 Most people have desires and lofty wants or goals. What they almost never have is a plan to attain them. Without a plan they are only wishes… not desires or goals


Eric W. Leaman
Trustee
eleaman@oedglobal.org
http://twitter.com/oed4smallbiz
Organization for Entrepreneurial Development
Unleashing the entrepreneurial spirit.
Change your mind ... and EVERYTHING changes